I get it; the struggle is real out there. Yet some of you ladies still have no clue about men and zero control over your behavior. Neediness and entitlement are at an all-time high. It’s like a bitch-pocalypse. Men are wooed into being leashed by a new age feminist who wields the power of “not answering your email on POF or Match”. She is strong and we must defeat her! By the way, scientists are trying to develop a weapon to defeat you before mankind is wiped out. Period.

Coming from a woman, I know that this may sound harsh, but as a dating and life coach for men; I speak the truth. Sorry not sorry – modern women daters suck. They’re prissy, unrealistic and full of expectations that are poorly mismanaged. You need to take the only Disney Princess advice that ever made sense and “Let it go”. We are all, even me, guilty of that self-sabotaging thinking/behavior. Hell, I’ve stuck with guys just for the sex. It’s not pretty when I look back on it now.

We are all, even me, guilty of that self-sabotaging thinking/behavior. Hell, I’ve stuck with guys just for the sex. I’ve dealt with less than stunning treatment out of an “it’ll do for now” mindset. I’ve rejected a guy who didn’t fit my “list”. I had lost respect for men in general. It’s not pretty when I look back on it now. If I wanted to move forward and have good relationships, I had to let that shit go. There is no such thing as the perfect man. Period. Good luck with that!

oo many women start relationships blinded by shiny object syndrome. It’s ridiculous. You are not entitled to a man’s attention, love and affection, if you make it always about you. You are not going to find a good man until you quit paying attention to bad boys, narcissistic pricks and users. You want him to have his shit together, so get right with you first. Drop the agenda and have a little me time with your ego. Kindly tell her to fuck off.